I don't know how people with a sweet tooth can go off sugar completely?!! My mother in law did it when she was diagnosed as a pre diabetic. Now that I've been diagnosed with the same--I've had to cut out deserts and sugars. But--that first cup of coffee in the morning--I have to have 1 teaspoon of sugar and the rest is splenda.
KANGA--my mother in law always used to take a sliver of whatever was the desert of the occasion. I don't know if you want to try that. When I asked her how she was able to do this--she said that we--all of us have more will power than we think that we do. She also prayed a lot. She never got headaches when she went off her sugar. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and for all of my sparkly sisters.
Hugs to everyone. They're calorie free!
P.S. I can't do only one sliver. I'd probably eat half of the cake. For me a sliver is a very bad idea. So, be careful with my advice, KANGA.