hi everyone, My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 15 years and we have no plans to get married. We aren't against marriage, we have just both decided that it's not for us. We aren't religious and we don't have or want kids. But I do want to buy her a ring to symbolize how much I love her. I'm just wondering if it is inappropriate to buy her a ring that would otherwise be considered an engagement ring. I found a pre owned 1/2 carat solitaire in a 14k white gold setting with a 1/4 ctw enhancer. The guys is asking $800 for both. I haven't seen it in person yet but he says the stones are flawless. I'm also wondering if that is a good deal. He says he paid $4000 but I think he may be exaggerating. My other idea was a pearl and diamond ring in and 18k setting. Her birth stone is pearl and mine is a diamond. I would really appreciate opinions but I don't need a lecture on marriage or religion. Thanks!